Tis the season where every kid has a final performance, concert, meet, or class party.
Sometimes all in the same week.
There’s now a full Christmas spirit week — which is five themed outfits per child, for anyone keeping score. Some days require a full green commitment to a fictional character who canonically hates joy.
There’s an elf that needs to move every night. And that one relative who needs a gift, even though there are absolutely no leads.
And then of course, there's also SO MUCH JOY.
If you’re trying to savor the magic while occasionally having a brief Grinch spasm, here are a few quick reminders to lower the pressure:
• Gift bags absolutely count • Store-bought treats are allowed • One “festive outfit” on repeat works (for me and the kids) • One accessory = spirit day success (There's a Dollar Tree aisle that's perfect for this) • Elf on the Shelf can move from one shelf to a slightly different shelf with no elaborate backstory • An iPhone photo is a perfectly good Christmas card • One thoughtfully planned online grocery order beats twelve “I forgot one thing” trips And a reminder: you’re just a mortal human. You can bring magic, but you’re not actually magical. You’re doing great. Really. 😆
If you’ve discovered any pressure-lowering Christmas hacks, hit reply and I’ll happily share them with the class!
I vote choose the version that leaves you with enough energy to actually notice the magic—because the point isn’t the production. It’s being there for it.
Alright. Gotta go move the elf three inches to the left. 😆🫡 xoxo, Katie
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