If the past few months felt slower… quieter… more inward…
HOT TAKE: you were doing it right.
You were wintering.
Every January the internet collectively decides that a random Tuesday in the dead of winter is the perfect time to kick goals into HIGH GEAR.
Meanwhile outside… the sun is gone and the ground is literally frozen.
I love the idea of nature giving us little “clues.”
Farmers don’t start their planting year in January.
They start in spring.
Because spring is when the conditions actually support growth.
And farmers understand something modern productivity culture tends to forget:
Every season has a job.
Spring → Plant Summer → Tend Fall → Harvest Winter → Rest and repair
Winter is not a high-gear season. Winter is a foundation season.
It’s when the soil recovers. It’s when roots strengthen underground. It’s when energy returns.
Let’s imagine you picked one goal this week.
Not ten. Not a life overhaul.
Just one seed.
Something small but meaningful:
• walking every morning • writing 20 minutes a day • strength training twice a week • pitching (or posting) your work consistently • building one tiny business system
And if you start now… something fascinating happens over the next year.
You don’t just achieve the goal.
You build a system.
I love it when my clients feel this “unlocking” moment and message me and say:
What time works? What version feels doable? What’s the minimum viable version?
It’s not perfectly linear progress. Pivoting. Noting setbacks. Trying something else.
You’re curious more than confident.
But something important is happening: momentum.
You're planting seeds.
Phase 2: (Early Summer) Unlocking / Actually Enjoying It
This is the surprising phase.
The resistance starts dropping.
You stop negotiating with yourself every day.
Sometimes you even… enjoy it?
You realize the habit is no longer something you're forcing.
You’ve unlocked something.
Phase 3: (Fall) Seeing Real Results
Now the results become visible.
Your body feels different. Your creativity is flowing. Your systems are saving time. Your work has traction.
And people start saying things like:
“How are you so consistent with that?”
But what they’re seeing is not discipline.
They’re seeing a system that is ALIGNED with you because you didn’t skip the experiment part. (spring)
Phase 4: (Winter) Delightful Autopilot
This is the phase everyone wants, but nobody plans for.
The system is running.
You don’t wake up and debate whether you’re the kind of person who does the thing.
You just… do the thing.
Almost without thinking.
Your habits are carrying you.
And suddenly you realize something kind of magical:
You built an automatic life upgrade.
This is why spring is such a powerful starting point.
If you plant the seed now…
By summer you'll feel momentum. By fall you'll see real results. And by next winter…
You might catch yourself relaxing into autopilot and saying the same thing my clients do:
“Wait. The system is running!”
I've heard the “technical” first day of spring is Mar 20th! Anyone want to set a goal and build a system? Hit reply and let me know what it is!
xoxo-Katie Day
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“Adopt the pace of nature: her secret is patience.”
— Ralph Waldo Emerson
Currently enjoying the last few bits of "wintering". Board games, hot cocoa, movie nights. So good to feel permission to "winter". if you've never done a deep dive into "hygge" before, it reframed the cold months for me forever. Now I fully surrender into hibernation. Give it a go with your fave research bot.
You 'll be seeing a lot of "Glasses Katie" for the next few weeks, I removed my eyelash extensions for the first time in 5 years! The natural lashes need a little time to heal. I'm throwing some serum at the problem and have decided the specs add to my "author era" energy. Does anyone else choose outfits that match their persona that day? Just me? 😆
After hitting rock bottom, I've embarked on a radical journey. For one year, I'm taking a break from all cynicsm and trying out some crazy self-improvement experiments (so you don't have to.)